"She'll love books and cook and look just like you" - Andre' 3000
Finding a mate when you're a black girl nerd can be hard. If you're like me you've got a multi-faceted personality that you turn on for different audiences.
This can make you appealing to lots of different types of guys - but usually results in none of them knowing the real you.
I always tried to figure out at what point it was ok for me to turn to Adult Swim at night and start watching cartoons like I usually do - without dude thinking I'm a weirdo.
